How Rejection Can Be Used As A Tool For Success In Music

Most musicians know that rejection is part and parcel of working creatively in any medium, but that doesn’t make the sting any less discouraging when things don’t go your way. Whether it’s being turned down for a show or releasing music that listeners don’t seem to resonate with, some artists experience rejection so acute and devastating that it causes them to stop making music altogether. But while nothing can remove the pain a musician feels when things don’t go the way they’d hoped, all creatives can––eventually must––use rejection as a tool for success and artistic survival.

Each rejection is a unique challenge

Whether it’s a bad review of your music or a music label refusing to give you their attention, you’ll have to start looking at rejections as challenges if you want to change the narrative. In the music industry, a “no” is much better than getting silence in return when reaching out to someone, but a silence is a rejection nonetheless. Though it can take countless forms, rejection in music is essentially someone in a position of power telling you that you or music just isn’t good enough. When this happens, you have the choice to agree or to move forward undeterred and inspired to prove your rejectors wrong.

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Changing for the better after a rejection

A big part of changing the rejection narrative is proving your doubters and critics wrong by finding the right audience for your work and continuing to do what you love. But another equally important albeit much more difficult part of it is accepting that your rejectors may be right in some cases. It’s possible you’re experiencing rejection because you or your music just isn’t there yet, whether it comes to trying to get the attention of a label or asking to open a sold out show. Yes, we’ve all heard plenty of cheesy motivational stuff like “better, not bitter,” but there might be more truth in sentiments like this than you realize. Rather than believing you’re a misunderstood genius that’s being rejected because people don’t “get” your music, you’ll be better off by figuring out what you or your music needs to change in order to get the opportunities that you want. A combination of hard work, talent, and dumb luck is what makes lots of musicians successful, and the factor out of the three you have the most control over is hard work. So when you face rejection in music––if you haven’t yet, it means you’re not trying hard enough––try taking more time to focus on your craft to be your absolute best as an artist and creative.

Use rejection as a tool to help you find direction in your music

Some talented musicians experience rejection after rejection because they’re simply looking for the wrong opportunities. If this sounds like you, it might be time to change your strategy. A couple of rejections are normal, but if you can’t get anywhere with your music, you might be looking for the wrong opportunities.

Patrick McGuire is a musician, writer, and educator currently residing in the great city of Philadelphia. He creates music under the name Straight White Teeth, and has a great affinity for dogs and putting his hands in his pockets.

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  • James Carbonaro - March 15, 2018 reply

    Some people work at jobs they hate their entire lives because they have to pay the rent, keep the heat on, & put food on the table some how. But to perform music you consider to be junk, even if it is popular with the masses, has to be soul crushing. Beethoven once opined that “…to play a wrong note is understandable. But to play without passion is unforgivable.”

  • Sabari Le Lion - March 16, 2018 reply

    Beautiful reflection. The struggle continues …#LL

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